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Q&A with J: His Porn Past Is Affecting Our Relationship

Today’s question came in a while ago. I pray that things have improved in this woman’s relationship, but she wrote a very long email about the situation with her long-time boyfriend. I’ll summarize some issues first: He was molested as a child. He didn’t say anything at first, but when he reported the incident, adults took […]

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Q&A with J: “He Wants It Every Night…Several Times”

Today’s question is a doozy. It’s from a wife whose husband is rather insistent about his especially high sex drive: What do you recommend for wives who do not become aroused during love making? My husband has a very high sex drive. He wants it every night and would like it several times a night

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Enjoying Sexual Intimacy While Dealing with Infertility

Today’s question from a wife is rather straightforward: How can couples reignite and enjoy their sexual intimacy while facing the struggles of long-term primary infertility? Any biblical encouragement you could share would be greatly appreciated. I’m glad you asked for biblical encouragement. Because I really can’t speak from experience on this one. I had some struggles

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Q&A with J: When Your Husband Falls Off the Porn Wagon

It’s Q&A with J time! Today’s question comes from a wife married for 16 years to a husband with many sexual troubles. My husband has struggled with sexual issues since he was a teenager, going to strip clubs, prostitutes, gay hangouts and a porn addiction. He has had at least two affairs and would video chat

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Q&A with J: Staying Sexually Pure When Your Divorced & Dating – Part 2

Today’s Q&A involves a question carried over from last week, in which a man was left by his wife and has begun dating again. Here’s his situation: I am a 54 year old divorcee.  I should have relationships and sex all figured out by now right?  After all I am over half a century old

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