withholding sex

He Doesn’t Wanna, But I Do! Help for Higher Drive Wives

Each Monday for a while, I will be responding to questions posed in my Q&A with J at HHH post. In the past couple of weeks, I received five comments from wives saying that they have a higher sex drive than their husbands. Rather than print the entirety of their comments here, this is the …

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Touch Me: I’m Here

It’s funny (peculiar, not ha-ha) how often being available or being present makes a positive difference to someone. After you race through a store and select items, someone must be available at the check-out counter to ring up your purchases, and stores that do well in being there at the right time and in the …

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Slap-worthy Practices in Marriage…and Better Options

From time to time — in personal conversation, through my blog, or on Twitter — I hear of spouses who are completely blowing it in the area of marital intimacy. I’m not talking about the spouse whose approach or skills could use tweaking. I’m talking about that selfish husband or wife whose actions are destroying …

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Should You Refuse? Wanda vs. Nina Cont’d

The question I posed on Monday was:  “Here comes hubby looking for some nooky, and you are feeling more worn out than a Tupperware container from 1974.  What should you do?” Last week, I said that I have met women on both bookends of this question — women who withhold sex whenever they don’t feel …

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Should You Refuse? Wanda vs. Nina

Here comes hubby looking for some nooky, and you are feeling more worn out than a Tupperware container from 1974.  What should you do? Some women act like sex is a Willy Wonka golden ticket, to be given out sparingly and used carefully.  Their husbands have to complete an obstacle course or tiptoe across burning …

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