Every year, I try to give you fresh ideas on what to buy your beloved for Christmas that promotes sexual intimacy!
For something different this year, how about pre-planned gift baskets, themed around sexual intimacy? You can give any of these to a spouse or a close friend.
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Wet & Wild
The shower is both a fun and a challenging place to have sex. And by sex, I mean the whole enchilada—not just intercourse, but sexual activities that work well in the shower. Here are some items you can throw into a shower sex basket:
- Gorilla Grip Bathtub Mat – for heaven’s sake, don’t slip and fall!
- Sliquid Silver Personal Lubricant – silicone-based lubricant that won’t wash off easily in the shower (less expensive alternative: Slippery Stuff)
- Kitsch Luxury Shower Cap for Women – or a more basic shower cap, for wives who don’t want to their hair wet/messed up
- Dual Locking Suction Handle Sex in the Shower Accessory – for “hanging on” while making love
- Luxury Hotel & Spa Hers and His Bath Towels – for soft clean-up afterward
Sex On-the-Go
Planning a trip over the holidays? Or having guests come to your home? How about a basket with items for sex while traveling?
- Sliquid Natural Lubes Sampler – sample-size lubricant, perfect for travel
- Lovely lingerie for her – unveil something new on the trip! At less than $10, why not?! Or let your recipient choose their own with an Honoring Intimates gift card.
- Compact White Noise & Other Sounds Machine – keep others from hearing the sounds of sex with some background noise
- Rael Feminine Wipes with Natural Ingredients – pH balanced wipes for easy clean-up
- And if anyone has the guts, this After Sex Towel is hilarious – see pic below
Oral Delights
Our mouths can kiss, lick, suck, and nibble, so why not a gift basket devoted to their sensual delights!
- Ultimate Personal Shaver Kit 2 – for trimming down there and a smoother experience
- Bodylicious Edible Body Pens 4 Pack – to let your tongue tour your beloved’s body
- Crotchless Panties for Her – for easy access, of course; in regular and plus-size
- Trustex Flavored Latex Oral Sex Condoms – for a tasty treat, without the mess
- Comfortably Numb Deep Throat Spray – to desensitize her and make fellatio more doable
- Nipple Nibblers Tingle Balm – lickable and heightens nipple sensitivity
- Grapefruit – for a little bonus, drop a grapefruit into the basket and see this post for instructions
- Listerine Ultraclean Oral Care Antiseptic Mouthwash – to rinse your mouth and throat afterward
Melt Me Massage
There’s nothing quite like a massage from your honey. But you need the right stuff to get going. Try these:
- Melt Couples Marriage Course – only $99 for lifetime access to video course
- Intimate Earth Heaven Aromatherapy Massage Oil – for a smooth massage
- Dona Massage Lotion – available in three different scents
- HoMedics Marbelous Mini Massager – small, vibrating body massager
- Hot to Go Reusable Heat Packs – add heat to your mate’s massage with hot packs in your palms
Santa Baby
No need for your baby to “slip a sable under the tree.” Instead, try these sexy Santa items for a holiday night of intimacy.
- Fur Trimmed Velvet Teddy – Mrs. Santa never looked quite like this before
- Sequin White Balls Pasties – nuh-uh, not explaining these
- Santa Claus Suit Boxers – something fun for him to wear
- Under the Mistletoe: A Christmas Short Story by J. Parker (that’s me!)
- Red Satin Love Mask – don’t peek at the presents! And enjoy your other senses more.
- Snowflake String Lights – ambiance for your bedroom
- Christmas Candle – a nice scent for atmosphere
- Ganz Mistletoe Door Kiss Ball – hang above your door frame or bed
- Adult Santa Hat – don’t forget the hat
Song of Songs Sensuality
And from the book of the Bible that encourages us to be more romantic, more intimate, more passionate…here’s some Song of Songs inspiration:
- I Have Found The One Whom My Soul Loves pillow or other home decor with Song of Solomon 3:4 – to set the mood
- Silky robe for her – tagged with a Song of Solomon verse by Honoring Intimates. “I have taken off my robe— must I put it on again?” (Song 5:3). Nope, take it off and enjoy sexual intimacy!
- Sex Position Cards – from Christian Friendly Sex Positions. “His left arm is under my head, and his right arm embraces me” (Song 2:6).
- Winter Romance CD Set – three discs with 60 classic Christmas love songs
- His or Hers Christmas Coupons – Song of Songs themed, from my website
Call me thoughtful and romantic,
faithful spouse and stalwart friend.
Remember when we watched ‘Titanic’,
how hard I laughed at Leo’s end?
Remember our first married Christmas,
first one spent as man and wife,
and the gifts you got that couldn’t miss:
five-cell torch and Bowie knife.
Your example so inspires me,
you truly are my shining star;
last year, that you may drive pretty,
I put spinning rims upon your car.
Coming up, now, for your Christmas fun
I’m building you a Gatling Gun.
I was wondering if you knew of any Canadian websites? I really don’t want to bring anything across the border and they won’t ship to Canada.
Thanks
Websites for which items? Some of these items are from Amazon, and there’s certainly Amazon in Canada.
I was meaning Christian marital aid stores. Definitely don’t want to search Amazon. My kids go on my account.
I’m so late with this information! But I finally got around to looking things up, and the only Christian-based company I can recommend that ships to Canada to The Pure Bed. Married Dance may be shipping to Canada soon as well, but their site has not confirmed that yet. Hope that helps!