J answers a lower drive husband’s question on how to negotiate sex drive differences in their marriage. Who gets to decide?
Q&A with J: Should A Higher Drive Spouse Lower Their Expectations? Read More »
I’m not sure how many low-drive husbands read my blog, but I know quite a few high-drive wives read it. Sometimes they comment or email me about the issues in their marriage, and I personally lament how few resources there are for couples in this scenario. Today it’s on my heart to write not to
A Letter to the Low Drive Husband Read More »
Those of you who read my blog often know that I have a tender spot for higher-drive wives. They aren’t the majority of wives, but rather represent 15-30% of marriages. However, that’s still millions of women! And unfortunately, a lot of marriage resources presume a higher-drive husband and a lower-drive wife, leaving couples that don’t
A Prayer for Higher-Drive Wives Read More »
In my graduate counseling program, I took a class about diagnosing and treating various psychological disorders. When we reached the section on eating disorders, I distinctly recall the professor saying something like, “You cannot put bulimics and anorexics in the same support group. To the bulimics, the anorexics are successful weight-losers, so they end up
Why High-Drive Spouses Get Frustrated Reading Comments Read More »
Our question for today comes from a wife who is currently separated from her husband, fighting for her marriage, and trying to deal with her restless sex drive. Here it is: Our sex life has been amazing from day one. I have a very high libido and I just enjoy sex and trying new things,
Q&A with J: Sexual Release Without Sinfulness Read More »
