How the Sexually Disinterested Spouse Feels
J shares 45 emotions of sexually disinterested spouses and addresses how to begin closing the sexual desire gap in your marriage.
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Q&A with J: No Interest in Sex & Meeting Emotional Needs
It’s Q&A day again! Today, I’m tackling two questions: one about a lack of interest in sex and the second about meeting emotional needs in marriage. Let’s get to it! 1. No Interest in Sex I’m in a strange predicament. I relate to the term “demisexual”, which basically means someone better be my best friend …
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Does Your Sex Drive Take a Dive in the Holiday Season?
I’ve been sleeping too much lately. Usually, it’s the other way around — not getting enough sleep. But after a rough start to last week with serious sleep deprivation, I decided to make it up with earlier bedtimes, later wake-up times, and a couple of naps. Surprisingly, I’ve had no problem soaking in every last …
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How Libido Works: For Women, That Is
If you follow me here or on social media, you’ll quickly discover that I share a lot of what Sheila Wray Gregoire of To Love, Honor, and Vacuum writes. That’s because we have very similar views on sex in marriage, and her wisdom is well worth my readers’ time. Not to mention that we’re friends. …
Q&A with J: I’m in a Sexless Marriage
Today’s question is heartbreaking. Listen to this husband’s emotional pain as he writes: It has been 22 months since my wife of 22 years has had sex with me. She has told me she doesn’t feel a desire for sex. She either has an excuse for not doing it or want even answer my requests. …