BDSM comes up from time to time. If you don’t know what that is, let me (somewhat sadly) educate you: It stands for Bondage – Discipline/Dominance – Submission/Sadism – Masochism. The activities range in intensity, but they are all categorized together because they involve shifting of power in the sexual act. Another single reader contacted […]
Q&A with J: Is BDSM Okay in Marriage? Read More »
Welcome back to Q&A with J. This reader’s email was longer and included some details, but I suspect several wives will relate to this wife’s feelings about sex in her marriage. “The thought of having sex does nothing for me. It’s only when we start or get into it when I actually am ok with
Q&A with J: When Sex Does Nothing for You Read More »
I’m back again for another installment of the Summer of Q&A with J. Here’s today’s question sent to me from a husband. He describes a conflict he had with his wife: I have been giving a lot of thought to a recent disagreement on sexual intimacy. We had been through some tough things over the prior
Q&A with J: Can Sex Be Used as Comfort? Yes, But… Read More »
Welcome back to another summer installment of Q&A with J. Today’s question is another one many wives can likely relate to. It’s about orgasm: I need some insight. I’ve been married for almost 2 years and I’ve never had an orgasm. I have always had a very healthy view of sex. I have no history of negative
Q&A: Faking the Orgasm? It’s Time to Get Real. Read More »
Today’s post is personal. Straight from my heart and no-holds-barred. I have 22 emails in my Inbox, several messages on Facebook, and 17 outstanding comments that require more than a 1-3 sentence reply. I’ve let these things stack up, and I feel bad about it. Truly, truly bad. I want to respond personally to everyone,
Where Do You Need to Say “No” to Say “Yes” to Your Marriage? Read More »
