masturbation in marriage

Q&A with J: “Is It Okay for Him to Please Himself While Thinking of Me?”

Today’s question is from a wife who struggles with postpartum blues. At the time she wrote, she was physically and emotionally unable to engage in sexual intimacy with her husband. I just had baby number 4 . . . I have really struggled with postpartum blues this time. I’ve been trying to communicate my needs …

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Masturbation: Hands On or Hands Off?

We’re getting toward the end of readers’ questions for me from my Q&A with J at HHH post. If you want to ask something I haven’t covered, click over there and leave a comment. In the meantime, here’s today question about masturbation in a Christian marriage: What about masturbation in a Christian marriage? Is it …

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More Candid Conversation about Masturbation

On Monday, Julie Sibert of Intimacy in Marriage and I tackled questions about masturbation in marriage. This is a controversial topic at times with people on both extremes of “Why not?” and “Heck no!” I could be considered somewhere in the middle. I believe godly sexuality in marriage is focused on one another. If masturbation …

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Two Wives & Candid Conversation about Masturbation

On a sexuality blog, it should be no surprise that I would eventually get around to discussing masturbation. There are heated opinions all along the continuum from “What’s the big deal?” to “Never, never, no, never!” I realize that I’m wading into potentially deep water here. So what better way to face a possible tidal …

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Two Wives & Candid Conversation about Masturbation

On a sexuality blog, it should be no surprise that I would eventually get around to discussing masturbation. There are heated opinions all along the continuum from “What’s the big deal?” to “Never, never, no, never!” I realize that I’m wading into potentially deep water here. So what better way to face a possible tidal …

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