My inbox is filled with questions from spouses telling me about their hardships regarding sexual intimacy in their marriage. I have maybe 100 such emails, and I often feel bad that I cannot get to each and every one. I imagine these individuals finally, painfully telling the details of their concerns and hoping to find some answer […]
Q&A with J: “Our Marriage Bed is a Mess” Part 1 Read More »
I recently posted something on my Facebook page about the Sex Chat for Christian Wives podcast, and one commenter responded: “Wait you have a podcast? I didn’t realize!!” At first, I thought: Really? You didn’t know? Because this is the header on my Facebook page: Then I thought about how often I scan stuff or don’t recall
Don’t Have Time to Read about Sex? Then Listen. Read More »
I recently wrote a pretty unfiltered post about the problem many of us wives have with being contentious in our homes. Sometimes I think God has me write things so that I’ll pay attention to where I need to grow in my marriage. Because after that post, I had a couple of different conversations in my
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I had an interesting conversation with my husband recently about casual versus committed sex. Why is committed sex so much better? Casual sex can actually feel quite physically pleasurable, but it lacks the intense satisfaction that marital sexual intimacy provides. One reason research has revealed is that men get a wash of feel-good chemicals during
What Makes Sex Intimate? Try Affection. Read More »
Visit any online marital aid retailer, and you’ll see that blindfolds are one of the items available for purchase. Why are they popular? Let’s talk a little about using a blindfold during sex. Why use a blindfold? When you block one of your five senses, you tend to become more aware of the others. Since
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