sexual fantasies in marriage

Q&A with J: “My Husband Wants to See Me with Another Man”

May 18, 2017 / Q & A with J / 13 Comments

I’ll be honest: Q&A days are hard. Because oftentimes, a reader’s question hits on a difficult situation. While I write maybe 1000 words to answer the query, the issue here consumes a lot of heartache for the questioner and real-life decisions they have to make. Today’s question is definitely in that realm. I have been with […]

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Should You Go Along with His Sexual Fantasy?

May 16, 2013 / Current Issues in Sexuality, The Bible and Sex / 8 Comments

I recently received the following comment from a reader. Her question addresses a specific situation, but the issue is more general. I was wondering if you could address an issue that I’ve been uncertain on how to deal with. Previous to our marriage, my husband viewed porn. His favorite fantasy is bondage. He told me

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