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What I Really Want for Valentine’s Day (Maybe You Do Too)

I’ve mentioned more than once on my blog that I’m not super-big on Valentine’s Day. Maybe it was ruined for me the year a high school boyfriend gave me a dozen roses in a thick glass vase, and two weeks later they all died on the same day. It was such a letdown, especially when […]

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Q&A with J: Staying Sexually Pure When Your Divorced & Dating – Part 2

Today’s Q&A involves a question carried over from last week, in which a man was left by his wife and has begun dating again. Here’s his situation: I am a 54 year old divorcee.  I should have relationships and sex all figured out by now right?  After all I am over half a century old

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Q&A with J: Staying Sexually Pure When You’re Divorced & Dating – Part 1

Welcome to Monday’s regular feature of Q&A with J. Today’s question is from a reader whose wife left him for someone else. Here’s his situation: I am a 54 year old divorcee.  I should have relationships and sex all figured out by now right?  After all I am over half a century old with an

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The Experts Who Are Damaging Your Sexual Intimacy

A friend and I were recently discussing how supposed “experts” often dispense very bad marriage advice. It got me thinking about how great resources are available, yet some “experts” might actually be hurting the sexual intimacy in your marriage. Who are those “experts” and how are they doing damage? Physicians. I’ve heard way too many stories of wives struggling with pain

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