Perhaps this is an odd topic for me to tackle. But I promise I’ll get to marital intimacy in a bit. In the recent past, I’ve been exposed to several optimistic statements about good marriages. While I’m generally optimistic about marriage myself, I’ve always bristled a little when I hear certain insights that should be
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If you don’t know what a “sex pillow” is, it’s basically any pillow designed specifically for sexual positioning. You can find various shapes, but the most common is a wedge. I hadn’t considered getting a sex pillow until we purchased a memory foam mattress. Let me tell you, for a woman who has struggled with
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Today’s questioner has not had sex. In fact, she feels completely unprepared to have sex in a future marriage. Here’s her story: I’m a 22 yrs old mega-virgin and the concept of intimacy is new and kinda scary to me My mother and I never had the talk, mainly because our family is very conservative when
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Sexual refusal is definitely a hot topic. I hear from varied voices on this sensitive subject. Some defend sexual refusal, stating that it’s horrible to suggest someone engage in sex just to please their partner. On other end are those who believe that not getting frequent sex is grounds for divorce. What’s the truth? Especially for those living
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What’s the point of sex anyway? Historically in the Church and in our society currently, we often misunderstand the real purpose of sex. There are three basic reasons for God’s gift of sex in marriage. Reproduction. Genesis 1:27-28 says: “So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female
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