Sexual intimacy, as God created and desires for marriage, requires vulnerability. Most women understand that sex requires vulnerability, since our bodies are literally invaded by another person’s body part. However, I believe that vulnerability is an issue for men as well. To give yourself intimately to your spouse, you must lower your defenses, get naked, […]
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Thus far, I’ve only identified myself as “J” — anonymous Christian sex blogger living somewhere in the United States with a husband and family. But I have decided that it is time to reveal something personal about myself — something about my family. I want to tell you about my husband. Well, not so much
Does Your Husband Stink at Romance? Mine too. Read More »
I received a comment to my Sex and the Pity post a couple of weeks ago. Its message was a poignant one. I want to share it with you and then respond. From Anonymous: “I love your posts. I read them because this is an area I am working on in my marriage. But sometimes I
Godly Sex Is Complex Read More »
We wives ask ourselves this very question at varied times. After a long day when your shoulder muscles are tight, you ask your hubby to give you a quick massage. He starts rubbing your shoulders, your head falls forward as you “ooh” and “aah” at his firm but gentle touch, and stress begins to ebb
Must It Always Lead to Sex? Read More »
Intimacy is a word thrown around quite often by Christian authors and speakers regarding marriage and sexuality. Anytime you choose a word, you hope its meaning is agreed upon by both speaker and audience so that you can effectively convey an idea. Do we agree on what intimacy is? The Merriam-Webster definition of intimate includes
