“You want me to put my mouth where?!!” That’s the gut response of many wives when they first contemplate giving oral sex. It seems natural to match up genitalia, but when it comes to your mouth, that’s a whole different story. Sure, you love his manhood and all, but you wonder: Is that allowed? Is it healthy? Is […]
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Being completely transparent here, I’ve had a personal struggle with depression. For whatever reason, my physiology tends toward depression when stressors congregate in my life. I’ve previously described the one time in my life when my sex life sucked, and looking back I suspect mild postpartum depression played a role. I’ve had a couple of
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Exhaustion is a libido killer. You know it is. Nighttime arrives — your head finally rests on the pillow, your husband moves closer and suggests something intimate, and before you know it, you’re snoozing instead of snogging. It’s this competition in your head: Sleep vs. Sex. Which one will win? In reality, the right answer
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People sometimes ask if I get tired of writing about sex all the time. Not really. The topic itself is rather interesting, and I am motivated over and over again by sad stories of deep pain, wrong messages propagated about sex that harm relationships, and success stories of marriages turned around. Not to mention the
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On Monday, Eric and Heather Viets from Preengaged.com were here advising How Much Should You Learn about Sex before the Wedding Night? With their background in engagement and pre-engagement counseling and their godly wisdom, the Vietses were the perfect couple to address that issue. But their post got me thinking. If I could go back
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