how often should you make love

Should You Track the Frequency of Sex in Your Marriage?

How often do you have sex? It’s a question some spouses can easily answer, and some not so easily. If you read my short story, “After the Baby,” in Behind Closed Doors: Five Marriage Stories, the main character is a husband who knows exactly how long it’s been since he and his wife made love. Because …

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Q&A: Will Frequent Yeses Turn My Husband into a Sex Maniac?

Welcome to the Summer of Q&A with J! The first question I’m tackling today addresses giving your husband the green light for frequent sex. If you let him know you’ll say yes when he initiates, will you be stuck with more sex than you can handle? Read on. “[I]n offering sex to my husband every day, sometimes more …

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Want More Money? Have More Sex. (Really.)

“…sexual activity is considered to be a barometer for health, quality of life, well-being and happiness.” So researchers state in the opening paragraph of a new report on the correlation between sexual activity and wages. Yep, wages. A British researcher analyzed a study that took place in Greece and included a random telephone survey of …

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How Often Should You Have Sex?

Eventually, all marriage and sexuality authors and speakers get around to this one, right? How often should a married couple make love? The usual response from experts is something like: “It depends. Some couples are content with once a month while others desire that close contact several times a week. Whatever amount keeps you both …

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