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Q&A with J: “I Can’t Remember What It Feels Like to Be Aroused”

Today’s email from a reader is short, but packed with issues. This wife has faced several struggles with sex and worries that she’s going to be stuck with these problems forever. I’ve been struggling through theses past few months breaking down mental and physical blocks towards sex. I guess I should probably start at the

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Permission to Feel Beautiful with Bonny Logsdon Burns

We are nearing the end of this Feel Beautiful series, but I definitely haven’t run out of favorite marriage bloggers talking on this subject. And each has something special to add to this conversation. Today we have Bonny Logsdon Burns, who runs the Oyster Bed 7 site with lower-drive wives in mind. Her outreach for

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Q&A with J: I Want to Stop Gatekeeping, But How?

Google “gatekeeping definition” and you’ll get this: “the activity of controlling, and usually limiting, general access to something.” When we talk about sexual gatekeeping, it refers to a spouse controlling or limited access to sexual intimacy. Unfortunately, it’s happening in many marriages. Here’s a question I received from a wife: I’ve been reading more and

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