Paul Byerly

Q&A with J: “He Gets Erections When He Sees Other Women”

Welcome (back) to Q&A with J. Let’s look at today’s reader question: My husband gets erections when he sees other women. Is this normal? It’s messing with my self esteem in ways I can’t describe. When I first got this question, my instinctive reaction was yeah, that’s normal — certainly for younger guys. But as …

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Showering and Bathing Together: Why You Should Try It

My husband and I have had a dream since the first year of our marriage, a longing for something that we would use and appreciate regularly: We want a double shower. While our dream shower looks something like this: Our real “shower” looks more like this: Why do we want a double shower? Because, like …

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