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Sexuality and Health

Which Personal Lubricants Should You Try?

I’d love to write a post with recommendations on personal lubricants. Mainly because when I realized we should add a little lubricant to our lovemaking, I went to the grocery store and just stood there, feeling overwhelmed. How was I supposed to know which type of lubricant was the one to try? Or which brand? How […]

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Why Squish Our Breasts at Mammograms? Can We Find a Better Way?

Note: I encourage women to get regular mammogram screenings. They are uncomfortable, but believe me, early detection can prevent far more painful experiences. And you’re tough—you’ve got this. Meanwhile, let me share in my hyperbolic, humorous way about my own recent mammogram. I diligently get annual mammogram screenings. With cancer in my family and having

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Q&A with J: “Pain and UTIs Have Shut Down My Sex Life”

With today’s question, I’m leaving a lot out, because the wife’s explanation of her heartbreaking circumstances was over 1000 words. But to give you an overall picture, below are her words in italics and my summaries in between. From the very start, sex was painful for me, but not in the usual way I suppose. I

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Q&A with J: Pregnancy Bed Rest Makes Sex Forbidden

Today’s question is from a wife who was put on bed rest during a complicated pregnancy. She wants to know what to do about their sexual intimacy when everything is off the table. “Not only is intercourse forbidden, but any arousal on my part causes pain and strong contracting. It has been six weeks, so

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Q&A with J: Contraception without Condoms?

Today’s question is about contraception — specifically condoms. I take no responsibility, however, for Mark Gungor’s shockingly funny description of condom usage. See below: “My question to you, however, is related to contraception. We have been discussing this on and off for a long time, and even after lots of research and reasoning, we’re still

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