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Q&A with J: Protecting Yourself from Infection

Today’s question’s involves infections that sometimes happen to women post-sex. Here’s what the wife asks: I am a 44-year-old newlywed. My husband I both waited for each other all those years, and I’m so glad we did! Marriage is a blessing and he was definitely worth the wait. [Wow. Insert applause here! Well done, you.] Because […]

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Why Squish Our Breasts at Mammograms? Can We Find a Better Way?

Note: I encourage women to get regular mammogram screenings. They are uncomfortable, but believe me, early detection can prevent far more painful experiences. And you’re tough—you’ve got this. Meanwhile, let me share in my hyperbolic, humorous way about my own recent mammogram. I diligently get annual mammogram screenings. With cancer in my family and having

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Q&A with J: “Pain and UTIs Have Shut Down My Sex Life”

With today’s question, I’m leaving a lot out, because the wife’s explanation of her heartbreaking circumstances was over 1000 words. But to give you an overall picture, below are her words in italics and my summaries in between. From the very start, sex was painful for me, but not in the usual way I suppose. I

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Q&A with J: Pregnancy Bed Rest Makes Sex Forbidden

Today’s question is from a wife who was put on bed rest during a complicated pregnancy. She wants to know what to do about their sexual intimacy when everything is off the table. “Not only is intercourse forbidden, but any arousal on my part causes pain and strong contracting. It has been six weeks, so

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