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Q&A with J: Oral Sex, Good Habits, and “Ladies First” Orgasm

At the end of last year, my email inbox had 336 emails I needed to address. Through a concerted effort in the last month, I have gotten my inbox down to 120 emails! Several of the questions I received didn’t warrant a full post, but I answered the individuals in briefer return emails. Today, I want to …

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Q&A with J: He Wishes I Could Orgasm More

Today’s question is from a recently married wife. Orgasms have always been difficult for me. I’ve probably had a dozen or so in nine months of daily sex. Now, this doesn’t mean I’m not enjoying sex — far from it! I absolutely love, and get a lot of pleasure from, our intimate times. But while …

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Q&A with J: Your Pleasure & Orgasm Matter

Back today (a day late, but here) with another reader question. I’ve often said that husbands delight in turning their wives on and seeing them satisfied, except I tend to say most husbands. Because some don’t. Read on: I don’t know if you’ve addressed this, but I’ve been married almost 10 years now. And I’ve only …

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Q&A with J: “I Just Can’t Seem to Orgasm”

My Q&A with J feature has moved to Thursdays, giving me more time in the week to contemplate my response and answer. Today’s reader question is about one of our favorite topics (right, ladies?): orgasm. We’ve been married for only 18 wonderful months, and have enjoyed the journey so far! But, I just can’t seem to …

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