True story: Some husbands really want oral sex from their wives, and their wives are adamantly against it. Other than concerns about whether it’s okay with God, the most cited reasons I hear for wives withholding this sexual act are hygiene and the ick factor. I’ve discussed hygiene and reassured wives that there is nothing problematic about
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I’m terrible at sales. I admit it. When my school made us students sell promotional products, I barely knocked on neighbors’ doors, prayed they weren’t home, and stumbled through my timid sales pitch. I really wanted to just buy the quota of products myself and avoid peddling my goods altogether. Yep, hard for me to make sales
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How cool is this?! I got to chat with Jolene Engle of Christian Wife University, who is also the host of the upcoming Wisdom for Wives online conference. This is a fabulous event in May, with eleven wives speaking on various facets in marriage. As you might guess, my session is on improving sexual intimacy in
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Romance novels regularly get pummeled. Sometimes with good reason. I’ve written about the myths of romance novels, aware they often convey wrong messages about love and sexuality. Plus, I feel bad for husbands who are trying, but the standard women seem to want, based on romance novels, is unrealistic and impossible. (We ladies know how unrealistic and
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You might think the three things higher-drive spouses long for are sex, sex, and sex. But while I’m certain higher-drive husbands and wives would like greater frequency of sexual intimacy in marriage, I truly believe they want more. So here are three other, very important things higher-drive spouses long for. 1. Recognition that their sex drive isn’t bad.
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