Today’s question is from a wife who’s struggling with her pleasure in the marriage bed: Hi, I’m hoping you can give me some advice. My husband and I have been happily married for 11 years…I love him more than ever…the problem is I can’t really seem to get into sex. I know it’s important and […]
Q&A with J: “I Can’t Really Seem to Get Into Sex” Read More »
I’m back from France! It was a lovely trip, although I missed my husband terribly (twelve days away from each other) and I returned with a nasty cold. Looking at my draft posts for what to put up today, I realized I’d never properly shared a couple of interviews I got to do with the
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If you follow my blog regularly, you might have wondered if I’d fallen off the face of the earth. After all, the last time I put up a post was over two weeks ago. You really don’t want to hear the whole story, but suffice it to say that I had three massive projects that
Setting the Right Priorities in Your Marriage (and Your Life) Read More »
Have you ever seen an article or book on questions for newlyweds? I’ve seen many great ideas on discussion topics for newly married couples to get to know one another better, to align their dreams and plans, and to prepare for potential pitfalls in the future. Someone recently challenged Paul Byerly of The Generous Husband to
10 Questions to Ask about Your (Mature) Sex Life Read More »
I can’t begin to tell you the number of times I’ve heard the suggestion that instead of accusing your spouse of doing something you don’t like, you should re-frame your statement as: When ____ happens, I feel ______. It’s a bedrock of communication advice, and it was overtly taught in my graduate counseling program. You’ll find
When “I Feel…” Statements Don’t Work Read More »
