On a sexuality blog, it should be no surprise that I would eventually get around to discussing masturbation. There are heated opinions all along the continuum from “What’s the big deal?” to “Never, never, no, never!” I realize that I’m wading into potentially deep water here. So what better way to face a possible tidal […]
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Raise your hand if you love a night of fabulous lovemaking based entirely on the notion that you should be pitied for not having had any in a while. Oh my, I see all of two hands back there! And you two have only ever experienced pity sex from your spouse, so it’s all you
Ah, the kiss! That brilliant invention of our Creator that makes us check our breath, cock our heads, plant a big wet one, and hunger for one more. Plenty of Christians writing about sex believe that the orgasm is proof that our Creator designed mating for pleasure. While I agree, I would add that the
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While driving on an errand, I glanced at the gauges on my dashboard and noticed that the temperature was running high. A mile or so down the road, the needle was all the way up to the red range of “H”! I pulled over, knowing I had to add water to my radiator to get
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When I started blogging about Christian marriage and sexuality in December 2010, I wondered what on earth I was doing. I was about to start a website on which I confessed personal secrets like my premarital sexual history and breast augmentation; advised people how to achieve a holier and hotter marriage through a biblical attitude
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When I started blogging about Christian marriage and sexuality in December 2010, I wondered what on earth I was doing. I was about to start a website on which I confessed personal secrets like my premarital sexual history and breast augmentation; advised people how to achieve a holier and hotter marriage through a biblical attitude
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The Gräfenberg Spot, or G-Spot, was introduced as a newly found sensitive area inside a woman’s vagina way back in 1950. Since then, it has received a lot of attention. And why not? It sounded like a perfect plan! Find the G-Spot on a woman, and she is guaranteed to sparkle like a Vegas showgirl
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There are plenty of reasons why sex should remain within marriage. Sure, there are the traditional arguments of unwed pregnancy, STDs, and getting a “reputation” (whatever that means these days). I agree that those are problems, but relational impact is a more persuasive argument. For instance, here’s something I’ve noticed: Love is blind. Okay, I’m
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Whether you’re an aspiring Olympic athlete or a nascent little leaguer, the only effective way to improve your game is through good coaching and practice. It’s true with anything in the physical realm. If I step away from this keyboard, drop down, and attempt 100 push-ups, I will likely collapse somewhere between push-up number 29
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