Welcome (back) to Q&A with J. Let’s look at today’s reader question: My husband gets erections when he sees other women. Is this normal? It’s messing with my self esteem in ways I can’t describe. When I first got this question, my instinctive reaction was yeah, that’s normal — certainly for younger guys. But as […]
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First off, let me clear up what introvert means. Introverts draw energy internally, while extroverts get charged up externally. This doesn’t mean that introverts don’t enjoy people or that they’re shy; rather, the experience of being with a lot of people or with people for long periods of time drains their energy. They need to go
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I hope you’ve been memorizing some scripture with me this year! I’ve been choosing verses that we can apply to our marriage and sexual intimacy. The past couple of scriptures have been gender-focused, and today’s is as well. When we look at the roles of gender in marriage, often people turn to Ephesians 5:25-33. This
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Today’s reader question is a short one, with a longer answer. I had (what I hope is) a quick question. I’ve read that for men, arousal tends to follow desire, whereas for women, desire tends to follow arousal. Do we have any thoughts on why God created things this way, assuming it was not by
Q&A with J: Why Did God Make Sex So Hard Sometimes? Read More »
Today’s question is an interesting one. It involves a practice you may or may not be aware of. This post is also more graphic than normal, so if it makes you highly uncomfortable, please click away and rejoin us for the Saturday post. Here’s what the husband reader asks: I got a question topic for
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