Is Giving a “Blow Job” Enjoyable for the Wife?
A husband poses the question of “what is it that the ladies enjoy so much about giving [oral sex]?” J gives reasons why a wife might enjoy the blow job too.
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Q&A with J: Should You Just Swallow Already?
Today’s reader question is about giving oral sex to your husband: Could you please send links to articles that specifically address wives who are averse to “finishing” when we give oral sex to our husbands. … his desire for me to do this comes up periodically and he has been very kind and patient about …
What Does He Mean by “Oral Sex”? (It May Not Be What You Think)
True story: Some husbands really want oral sex from their wives, and their wives are adamantly against it. Other than concerns about whether it’s okay with God, the most cited reasons I hear for wives withholding this sexual act are hygiene and the ick factor. I’ve discussed hygiene and reassured wives that there is nothing problematic about …
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Still Nervous about Giving Him Oral? Yeah, I Get It.
“You want me to put my mouth where?!!” That’s the gut response of many wives when they first contemplate giving oral sex. It seems natural to match up genitalia, but when it comes to your mouth, that’s a whole different story. Sure, you love his manhood and all, but you wonder: Is that allowed? Is it healthy? Is …
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Oral Sex: Better to Give and Receive, Part Deux
Quick note: One very clinical illustration below may still make this post unsafe for viewing at your workplace. Just wanted to give fair warning. In my last post, I introduced the topic of cunnilingus — that is, oral sex performed on a woman. I discussed whether this practice is okay with God and why a …