Last week, I talked about the many emails in my inbox with specific stories of hardship surrounding the marriage bed. While I desperately wish I could clone myself and answer every single question fully, I simply cannot. I’m one tiny part of the Body of Christ, and what I say isn’t the only wisdom out […]
Q&A with J: “My Marriage Bed Is a Mess” Part 2 Read More »
I’m not sure how many low-drive husbands read my blog, but I know quite a few high-drive wives read it. Sometimes they comment or email me about the issues in their marriage, and I personally lament how few resources there are for couples in this scenario. Today it’s on my heart to write not to
A Letter to the Low Drive Husband Read More »
“My God, my God, why have you forsaken me? Why are you so far from saving me, so far from my cries of anguish? My God, I cry out by day, but you do not answer, by night, but I find no rest.” That’s how Psalm 22 begins. And look at the start of Psalm
Is It Okay to Yell at God about Your Marriage? Read More »
My inbox is filled with questions from spouses telling me about their hardships regarding sexual intimacy in their marriage. I have maybe 100 such emails, and I often feel bad that I cannot get to each and every one. I imagine these individuals finally, painfully telling the details of their concerns and hoping to find some answer
Q&A with J: “Our Marriage Bed is a Mess” Part 1 Read More »
Did you have sex before marriage? Either with your husband or someone else? Or maybe several someone elses? Welcome to the majority. Statistics show that 97% of Americans have sex before marriage. In highly religious groups, that number goes down to 80%, which is quite a difference. However, that’s still 4 out of 5 devoted
Why You Feel Worse Than He Does about the Premarital Sex Read More »
