Today’s question is from a wife who struggles with postpartum blues. At the time she wrote, she was physically and emotionally unable to engage in sexual intimacy with her husband. I just had baby number 4 . . . I have really struggled with postpartum blues this time. I’ve been trying to communicate my needs […]
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One of my most shared posts is 8 Things I’d Say About Sex If I Had No Filter (Heaven Help Us All). In the same vein, I’m telling it like it is today. I get a bit weary of seeing email and posts in which people blame God for their way-too-low sex drive. It usually goes
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Remember listening to the radio and people calling in to dedicate songs to their loved ones? The Romantic Vineyard marriage blog is currently hosting the Love Song Dedication to My Spouse Contest. For the contest, entrants write or video what they would want a radio host to read to their spouse on air and include
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Google “gatekeeping definition” and you’ll get this: “the activity of controlling, and usually limiting, general access to something.” When we talk about sexual gatekeeping, it refers to a spouse controlling or limited access to sexual intimacy. Unfortunately, it’s happening in many marriages. Here’s a question I received from a wife: I’ve been reading more and
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As usual, I’ve been thinking about great sexual intimacy in marriage and what it takes to get there. Are there principles that are must-haves to experience all that God intended for our marriage beds? I came up with four I believe are integral to healthy, godly sexual intimacy. Desire. I’m not talking about libido, or
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