More Q&A today! Here’s a question from a teen reader. While I don’t encourage teens to read my site, this young lady popped by and asked the following. Hi J, let me start by saying I am sixteen and not married. I know that I do not really fit your qualifications for questions, but hear […]
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Last week I answered a reader’s question about “au naturale” destinations in the context of her marriage. And I unwittingly set off a maelstrom of comments about whether public nudity itself is unbiblical. You may ask why I didn’t anticipate such a result, but I was thinking of the whole thing in terms of marriage
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Last week, I got a case of righteous indignation after learning that two couples I know have been impacted by adultery. I suggested that we need to stop talking about building a hedge for our marriage and instead erect a strong wall to keep out Satan’s attacks on our covenant. This week, I want to look at
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After last week’s interruption of our Monday Q&A sessions here (with Confessions of a Sexy and Sexy-Happy Hubby featuring my favorite guy, “Mr. Spock”), I’m back to fielding your questions. Here’s today’s question: I have a husband who desperately desires sex more (we are going through 29 days to great sex currently and it is
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I combed my archives thinking that surely I had addressed the topic of low sex drive in wives but couldn’t find a single post on the subject. Today’s question deals with that issue, so here it is: This may have been discussed in the past (I’ve been subscribing to your blog for about 6 months),
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Today’s Q&A topic is about rebuilding trust in the bedroom. In order to engage fully in marital sexuality, you must be able to trust yourself with your spouse. So how do you get trust back when it’s been broken? Here’s the question an Anonymous reader left on my Q&A with J at HHH post: Sorry
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C.S. Lewis said in Mere Christianity: “Starving men may think much about food, but so do gluttons.” He was making an analogy of food to sex, arguing that those who are obsessed with food or sex are either terribly hungry or overly indulged. I agree. One of the charges laid against Christian sex or marriage intimacy
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Given that I blog twice a week on marriage and sexuality, you wouldn’t think I’d even ask such a question. Don’t we all know what sex is? Yet sometimes when people use the word sex, I wonder if we’re all talking about the same thing. The dictionary definition is sex is simply coitus, or intercourse.
We’re back to Monday — the day I have designated to answer readers’ questions. I intended to answer a different question (sorry if it was yours) until a young man left this comment on my Q&A for J at HHH post: I came across this on twitter and is just in time! I am getting
Have you heard that your bedroom should be reserved for sex and sleeping? Have you heard that the TV should get the boot out of the bedroom? Have you heard that you should spruce up your bedroom to make it a romantic atmosphere? I have. I bet you have too. But I only partially agree.
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