Today’s reader question is from a woman struggling with lust and/or discontentment. Here it is: I am a woman who considers herself to struggle with thoughts of lust, though many would disguise this cringe-worthy term with simply “discontentment”. …I never thought of myself as attractive growing up, because my two older brothers were verbally abusive […]
Q&A with J: A Wife Struggling with Lust Read More »
I love the movie “Say Anything.” It came out when I was in college, and I remember being so struck by its story and characters. Looking back, I think what I liked most about this film was how the main character, Lloyd Dobbler, was what we often call an alpha guy — that is, he
The Lamest Excuse for Your Sexual Problems Read More »
Quickie (n). a brief or spontaneous episode of sexual activity. Quickies should not comprise the majority of your lovemaking. If they do, you’re not giving your sex life enough time and attention. Because the ultimate goal of sex in marriage is intimacy. And you can’t get super-intimate with your spouse in 5-10 minutes. That said, when
5 Reasons to Love a Quickie Read More »
Since I started blogging in 2010, there has been a flourishing of websites like mine — Christian women devoted to helping other Christian women pursue holy and pleasurable sexual intimacy in marriage. We come from different perspectives, but many of us share a similar mission. For instance, I’d count all of my Sex Chat for
Q&A with J: Good Websites for Husbands About Sex Read More »
Have you heard the saying that, when it comes to sexual intimacy, “Men are microwaves, women are crockpots?” The message is that men heat up quickly, while women take longer to warm up and reach readiness. Now some have argued this is a poor analogy since it assumes the woman will heat up, which isn’t
High-Drive Wives Are Not Crockpots Read More »
