Back today (a day late, but here) with another reader question. I’ve often said that husbands delight in turning their wives on and seeing them satisfied, except I tend to say most husbands. Because some don’t. Read on: I don’t know if you’ve addressed this, but I’ve been married almost 10 years now. And I’ve only […]
Q&A with J: Your Pleasure & Orgasm Matter Read More »
My Q&A with J feature has moved to Thursdays, giving me more time in the week to contemplate my response and answer. Today’s reader question is about one of our favorite topics (right, ladies?): orgasm. We’ve been married for only 18 wonderful months, and have enjoyed the journey so far! But, I just can’t seem to
Q&A with J: “I Just Can’t Seem to Orgasm” Read More »
Welcome back to another summer installment of Q&A with J. Today’s question is another one many wives can likely relate to. It’s about orgasm: I need some insight. I’ve been married for almost 2 years and I’ve never had an orgasm. I have always had a very healthy view of sex. I have no history of negative
Q&A: Faking the Orgasm? It’s Time to Get Real. Read More »
No matter how many tips on orgasm I give, there are likely to be wives out there who say, “But I still can’t orgasm!” Some women feel they have tried every piece of advice they’d been offered or could seek out on their own, and the much-touted climax is still dangling out of reach. If
But I Still Can’t Orgasm! What Next? Read More »
Orgasm seems to be a rather straightforward experience. Scientifically speaking, a woman has had an orgasm when she releases sexual tension through rhythmic muscular contractions in her pelvic area. These spasms are accompanied by heightened sexual pleasure — of the my-world-just-kaboomed-and-I-liked-it sort. But not all orgasms are the same. While there’s long been a debate about
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Today, let’s celebrate the female orgasm. Why? Because it’s pretty great. Many wives have experienced orgasm and can back me up here. Other wives who haven’t yet had the Big O, don’t sweat that you aren’t there because it sometimes takes a while to figure out, but do focus on your pleasure during sex and
What’s So Great about an Orgasm? Read More »
It’s hard for many husbands to believe that wives can enjoy sex without the orgasm. I’m not speaking for all women here (some wives want it every time); however, there are a good number of us who can be okay with forgoing the peak of all peaks. So why would a wife sometimes pass up
Why I Sometimes Don’t Care about the Orgasm Read More »
I’m so thrilled today to have Julie Sibert of Intimacy in Marriage on my blog! Julie is one of my favorite marriage bloggers and a fabulous friend. Let me tell you, folks: In real life, she’s just as wise, sincere, and funny as you see on the page. And she’s writing about orgasm. I’m ready
3 Tips on Having a Great Orgasm Read More »
On Mondays, I have been answering questions I received from my Q&A with J at HHH post. If you have another one to pose, head over there and leave a comment. IÂ will eventually get around to all of the inquiries. Today’s questions are to-the-point and were asked by anonymous commenters. 1. The multiple orgasm myth
Beyond the Single Orgasm Read More »
Orgasm. Have you had one? I recently got a question from a commenter. Here’s what she (Anonymous) said: “My issue is that I have never had an orgasm. I’m beginning to believe that I can’t. I love sex… I initiate it more often than he does! But I know that it bothers him somewhat (a
Orgasm: If Only I Could O Read More »
